OK, sorry to do this via DW but I think it's about the easiest way. I'm also really sorry that we couldn't invite everyone on my friends list; anyway, if you're not coming to the wedding this post is completely irrelevant and boring, so please do skip!
Thanks to despotliz for reminding us that it would be good to have a central clearinghouse for this.
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